If you ask a Mom to dinner, she'll probably look at you with surprise. "Without the kid?" she'll ask."Of course," you'll say. "Just the two of us."She'll grab her planner, iPhone, crackberry or other SmartPhone and start paging through possible babysitter choices. Her high school best friend will volunteer to come over for the night. You'll smile, because a friend's generosity means a little more cash in your pocket. And less worrying about the kid. Dessert perhaps?Then she'll head into the…See More